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Online dating: 6 rules to help find the ideal partner

My worst dating experience began promisingly. I’d met a guy online – he was interesting and handsome, and we had great conversations. When he asked me out, it was a no-brainer, and when we met, he actually looked better than he did in his profile photos. He was smart, funny and had a great job. Midway through our date, his phone started buzzing. It was his wife. Supposedly they’d separated very recently, but he was still living in their house and she very much thought their relationship was intact.
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No doubt you have a terrible dating story (or many stories) of your own. Even after that terrible date, my friends and family told me I was being too picky, and that unless I relaxed my standards, I’d never get married. Ultimately, I decided that was ridiculous. If I was looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, why wouldn’t I be as choosy as possible?

So I began a month-long experiment, analysing the profiles of popular online daters and their behaviour on dating sites. What I discovered surprised me, to say the least. It also led me to my husband. Here are my top 6 tips for online dating based on my experience.

1.Keep score

Once you’ve thought of all the traits you want in a mate, prioritise them. Think about the characteristics in the context of previous relationships, your friends and your family. Develop a scoring system. Allocate points to your top 10, and fewer points to a second set of 10‑15 characteristics. Decide the lowest number of points you’ll accept in order to go out on a date with someone. This is basically developing a handcrafted algorithm, just for yourself.

2.Get online

Pick a few websites to use. Cougarlure.com is a more general environment with a lot of options. People who use Tinder tend not to be looking for long-term relationships. It’s OK to use two or three sites at a time. Bear in mind that you’ll want most of the features activated, and that some sites can be expensive.

3.Go shopping

For the most part, dating sites aren’t doing anything particularly mysterious. Sites mostly create taxonomies and match users based on their answers. In some cases, sites look at the gap between users’ answers and their behaviours. For example, you might say that you prefer a very tall man with dark hair who is religious, but mainly click on profiles for shorter atheists. The algorithm in that case would try to match you according to your behaviour. But maybe you’re clicking on all of the profiles, even those that don’t match your preferences, or sitting next to your sister, and she’s also looking for a boyfriend – one who’s short and blond. In that case, the algorithm won’t work either. It’s best to treat dating sites as giant databases for you to explore.

4.Keep your profile short

Long profiles typically didn’t fare well in my experiment. I think that for thoughtful women, or women who are quite smart, there’s a tendency to give more of a bio. Popular profiles were shorter and intriguing.

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5.Be selective

It’s good to give examples of your likes and dislikes, but bear in mind that you may inadvertently discourage someone by getting too specific about things that aren’t ultimately that important. I love Curb Your Enthusiasm. As it turns out, my husband particularly dislikes that show. If I’d have gone on and on about Larry David in my profile I wonder if he’d have responded.

6.Use optimistic language

In my experiment, I found that certain words (“fun”, “happy”) made profiles more popular. Talk about what excites you, or paint a picture of a really great day that you would want to be a part of. Would you date you?

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5 Tips for Older Women Dating Younger Men

Are you a cougar? Do you want to meet a younger man and are afraid of getting your heart broken? If so,you’re not alone. No age limit in front of true love! Here are some tips to finding and keeping a younger man, who can keep up with your hot, vibrant self:

1. Be Confident

Men are attracted to confident women regardless of their age. This will actually play in your favor. Younger women tend to have more insecurities as they are still figuring out their place in the world, drawn to dating “bad boys” and are more likely to play games with the men that they date. On the other hand, older women are already established, are more comfortable in their skin and are finished with all the BS games they played when they were younger. This is a big reason why younger men find older women so attractive. Remember that you have a great deal to offer any man worthy of your attention, whatever his age may be.

2.Date with No Fear

This is not your first rodeo. At this point in your life you have probably been married before, have kids or made the choice to have neither. Either way, you know that a man isn’t going to make or break you. This strength is another trait that attracts younger men to older women. It takes a grImageeat deal of the pressure off of them and the relationship. Older women aren’t inclined rush into a commitment too quickly. They continue to date other men until a relationship is established. They understand that a date is just a date and not a marriage proposal. If there’s no second date, it’s not a big deal. Your world isn’t crushed because one man didn’t call back.

3.Don’t Assume He Will Cheat

As you are aging you may begin to feel insecure that he will begin to find you unattractive. If you have been together long enough for your body to go through significant changes, you should have more than a physical connection. If he’s a cheater, it wouldn’t matter how old you are. He would still cheat. Besides, he’s also aging and you could easily trade him in for a younger model as well. Don’t let him forget that.

4.Enjoy Your Differences

Some women are afraid they will have nothing in common with a much younger man. This doesn’t have to be a negative. Enjoy learning about each other’s music preferences, hobbies and experiences. These differences will keep the relationship fresh and exciting.

5.Take Care of Yourself

If you are the type of woman who is drawn to and attracts younger men, you are most likely already health conscious. You probably have more energy than other women your age and are more of a free-spirited, independent woman. However, most young men aren’t known for living a healthy lifestyle. Although age is only a number when it comes to dating, it isn’t when it comes to your body. Don’t forget that you no longer have the metabolism of a 20-year-old. If you allow your diet and exercise to fall to the way-side, you won’t have the energy, stamina and youthful looks you had when you first met your nubile stud. Of course, your new stud-muffin is probably giving you plenty of exercise in the bedroom. So, a drop in your pilates classes won’t be noticed.

Making the decision to date a younger man can be exciting, intriguing and terrifying for a woman.  In the long run, as long as you are both happy and enjoying each other’s company, the difference in age shouldn’t be an issue. Dating a younger man is no different than dating a man closer to your age as long as you are a good fit for each other.

How To Seek A Cougar Online

It’s a popular that younger man seek a cougar online! If you are interested in cougar dating but don’t know how to find a real cougar online. Cougarlure will help you. Maybe some guy would say,it’s not so difficult. You can sign up at a social website such as twitter or a FB and so on.Then find the target,send the messages. But at last,most guys find they never succeed in these sites. Why?

You should realize that a cougar hardly spend so much time in the social sites. If they want to seek a serious relationship they will sign up in some professional cougar dating sites.In general the cougar usually use these social sites to connect to their friends and family members. So the relationship is not their purpose.And you can’t ensure whether these older women are “cougar” . So don’t waste your time and energy in these sites.Image

Now,how to find a real cougar on these cougar dating sites? First of all,You must admit a truth ” it never will rain roses“. It’s means you should pay for something that you want to get. Maybe you don’t agree with me,but this is the common phenomenon in this society. If you can’t choose the good cougar dating site,I will strongly recommend you a site www.cougarlure.com. It’s free to sign up. But i suggest you become a fee member. Because only in this way,can you own more information about other members and send the messages. Second,choose a member. So this is the point of your dating. Search them by different ages and places. A real cougar will fall in her profile in detail if she want a serious relationship. So pay attention to her photos (not just one pic),interests,and requiring. Third,be sure this cougar is interested in you so much like you ,too. If you failed in a communication with a cougar. Remember that,never give up unless you had done it countless times. The chance is always waiting for you behind . Last,when you succeed,just do what you do in social websites. Life is too short to worry about what others think. Like a cougar is like a queen. So long as you search them in heart,i believe you can find your true love.

The cougar is different to the younger girls. Good luck to all the younger guys looking for cougars.